It’s not about the date or time; It’s the PRESENT! It’s the Power Of Right Now! When your mindsets on the day and hour, well, then you believe there will always be a tomorrow. Take a look around you; they’re people that surround you today, that will not be around tomorrow. If they’ve consistently thought of ways to change their lifestyle and kept putting them off until tomorrow, they’ve just blown their chances to use, The Power of Right Now!
Put yourself in their shoes, and answer these simple questions:
What if there’s no tomorrow?
Would all your worries go away? No, that little weasel will appear, popping up from nowhere.
I just had a flashback, to the book of Matthew 13: 24 -29
When Jesus was telling the parable of the sower that sowed good seeds and while everyone was sleeping the enemy came along and planted weeds. When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, the weeds also appeared.
What instruction do you think were given to the worker sowing good seeds? Not to pluck the weeds, to let them grow and then pluck, bundle and burn them. Read more here: Matthew 13: 29-30
Whenever you begin to think out of the box
The seeds planted are about what your heart desires to do. If you’re holding on to second thoughts about doing them, they’re the weeds. It’s okay to have these thoughts come along. As you’re moving towards doing what your heart has already planted, you’ll be able to stand back and remove the weeds, gather your thoughts by removing what doesn’t belong and nurture what does.
When we focus on the date and time, we restrict ourselves from planting,
Although there’s a time for everything under the sun and that time doesn’t have anything to do with the date or your watch, It’s the present; it’s truly all you have. Use your Power Of Right Now and overcome the weeds those second thoughts, negative surrounding, and hang out more with people like me!
How many ways do you look at something? Like the hourglass, so are the days of our lives. The above-written words can apply to relationships as well. If you’re hoping on a promise that’s not there, those are weeds (fear) hindering you from moving forward. When we commit our lives to a relationship that appears to be growing without good seeds planted, our tomorrow doesn’t exist; it’s dying!
We remain in a mindset of not knowing what, until he or she walks out leaving us sinking in quicksand. It’s real simple, don’t wait on him or her to make the promise.
Think about how long you’ve waited and why wait?
Do you feel as though your relationship is growing or dying?
If you’re in a relationship and want to leave, that’s your heart planting the seed for you to grow towards (purpose) growing bigger balls (courage) to putting on your big girl panties and ease on down the road.
Any moment he/she can say
I love you; I’m not in love with you, and I don’t understand why?
He’s a Pole-Date. That’s why!
Stay Powerful, Purposeful and Productive